After all, who wants to meet up with someone without first hearing their voice?At the same time, making a phone call can be nerve racking, especially when you’ve never met the person before – that first impression you make over the phone is very important.
So keep your initial phone conversation short and to the point. Keep Safety in Mind Let’s face it, until you know someone, you don’t know them.
So it’s important to keep safety in mind when giving a date your phone number.
You’ve done well so far, but now her digits are burning in your brain.
Are you going to ace the first call or spiral down in flames?
The online dating dance usually includes similar moves no matter who catches your eye. Eventually someone drops their phone number and the other responds.
When it comes, you exchange flirty little messages for a few days and learn about one another.
Am I being unfair with this expectation of not giving my phone number out and preferring to spend weeks on online chatter? If you’ve ever wondered why you struggle with men, it’s quite likely because you’ve never given much value to HIS circle in the Venn Diagram.
I actually do like this gentleman, which is unusual for me. I figure this is as good a time as any to float a pretty non-controversial theory of how to be successful in dating. Okay, so you know what a Venn Diagram looks like, right? I always ask for the man’s phone number, and offer to call him.
Is it possible to find a woman who’ll have sex on Date 1? Is it possible to find a man who’ll wait until marriage before having sex? But there are a LOT fewer people who will agree to either.