Being an extrovert with a hot temper I find it difficult to deal with introverted people.A few years ago I was dating a very shy man and our relationship collapsed because I couldn’t meet his basic needs and I couldn’t understand fundamental things about being an introvert.Without knowing it, girls get “stamped” on the inside with WOW. Even though outgoing guys get all the great girls, introverted guys have a lot to offer.
It’s not that my introverted friends can’t do that, they just find it exhausting, and most of us aren’t at our best when we feel worn down.
That can result in setbacks for the introverted man, especially when he engages with women who expect the guy to initiate.
Introverts might need a little assistance from you, though.
You might need to actually approach shy men and make it easier for them to connect with you.
Why does a charismatic ‘bad boy’ have beautiful girls falling all over him?
Could a nerdy introvert ever measure up to a sexy bad boy? Extroverted football heroes and other heartthrobs deeply impress some girls.
Because our energy is limited, we don't want to waste it on something that isn't meaningful to us — and spending any amount of time and energy on small talk is a waste of said time and energy.
We prefer deep conversations over small talk, which feels insincere. That "rule" about dating, where you're supposed to call after three days? A phone call is intrusive, it interrupts us and catches us off-guard, and it is often filled with unnecessary small talk. Showing real, genuine interest in what we say and do, and remembering details from conversations we had weeks ago will blow our minds. Don't expect us to be available at a moment's notice. " are the five worst words we can receive in a text message.
Chances are you’ll forget about the argument, but your sweetheart can start talking about it in several days.
When you really want to settle a conflict, adopt a patient behavior.
And the more an introverted man is aware of his capacity to come across as both a hero and a zero, the more he can leverage his strengths and downplay his weaknesses as he gets to know someone.